Become the man you know you can be.
MEN'S WORK · BEND, OREGON AND ONLINE
I help men become more trustworthy, present, purposeful, and capable of meeting their lives as the men they know they can be.
See what happens when you don't turn away.
You're doing okay, and you know there is more.
WHO THIS IS FOR
From the outside, your life probably looks like it's working. On the inside, something feels stuck. I know this man well, because five years ago he was me.
You feel lonely, even when you're surrounded by people.
You reach for something to take the edge off at the end of the day.
You get defensive with your partner and short with your kids.
Your work pays the bills but doesn't fill your cup.
You compare yourself to other men and wonder if you are enough.
Ways In
WORK WITH ME
ONLINE · STARTS NOVEMBER 3
An eight-week online men's group for the man ready to begin the work of change.
Tuesdays, noon to 1:30 p.m. Pacific
November 3 to December 22, 2026
$350 early enrollment, then $400
Groundwork
IN PERSON · WINTER 2027
Winter Retreat, Location & Dates TBD
A few days in the high desert with fire, good food, and men who are ready to go deeper. Full details are coming soon. Details coming soon.
ONE ON ONE · ONLINE OR IN BEND
Private work for the man who wants focused attention on his own life, his relationships, and the next step he is ready to take.
1:1 Coaching
IN PERSON & ONLINE · SINCE 2023
For three years, HeartField has gathered men around a fire in Bend. This fall it is taking a new shape and will be meeting monthly on Zoom. It is still free and still a great place to start, or a great place to come back to.
HeartField Men’s Circle
The first men's group I ever attended was the one I started.
ABOUT ME
I started HeartField in April 2023, and I have been holding space for men in Bend ever since. In 2025 I completed John Wineland's six-month Embodied Masculine Leadership Training, and I keep training and assisting alongside other teachers in this field.
Serving in this work is an honor. I feel more alive every time a man says what he has been holding back.
WRITING
I write about marriage, fatherhood, integrity, and the ordinary moments that turn out to matter. New essays come out on Substack, along with news about upcoming groups, programs and retreats.